tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193246892024-03-06T02:37:06.186+05:30UtopiaUtopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.comBlogger331125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-89342025036639838782015-09-07T14:01:00.001+05:302015-09-07T14:03:10.838+05:30Closing time<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Growing up means handling heartbreaks better. Or does it? Just the other day I was thinking
oh so complacently, in the face of issues in office with the Boss and the state
at home, and I was like the only thing I have learnt how to deal with
effectively all these years from 16 to 32 would be heartbreaks and rejections! I think feeling heartbroken was such a
familiar emotion for me. It was comfortable and
I was so at home being rejected and heartbroken. I had my break up songs
that would be playing on a loop. I had my girls in every city I went. There are
coffee shops and watering holes you go to and drown in green tea and cocktails
and smoke copious amounts and bitch and bitch until you can bitch no more. You
rip the object of your former affection apart piece by piece and at the end of
the outing your brigade has convinced you how you are too good for him. Sigh! <o:p></o:p><br />
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I even found a new
set of girls to crib and whine to in Singapore as and when I felt the
rejection. Sigh! I haven’t that here. I wonder if I will, I doubt I will. My
people that is what I miss. I need to meet my girls and talk this thing out.
Any one will do. Two of them would make my cup overflow with happiness. I miss
my friends so much that it hurts. It happens every single day. I am like what
am I doing here without my friends? Without them and my loved ones I am nothing. They make such a
large part of me and if you cannot find a new band then its time you move on.
There has to be something that roots you to a place. Sadly this place for me
will not have roots. Just holidays to Europe will not keep me going. They are
mere oasis’ in my otherwise barren life here. I want more. I want green
pastures, I want freedom, I want the liberty to be myself, I want love and
laughter and giggles, I want magic and the feeling of being whole. That is what
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Utopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-90792997126963651732015-05-30T17:44:00.001+05:302015-05-30T17:44:22.841+05:30Observations <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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My only form of vice these days is tea. I have two cups of
tea on working days in office served at my table by this young Bangladeshi chap
called Azeez. I always talk in Bangla with him though there is a distinct difference
in our dialects but we understand each other perfectly. I love the tea he
makes. It’s a cross between the bubble tea I had in Singapore and the homemade
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Some days I feel I never left India. Some days I feel I have
been here forever. Besides Indians are everywhere in this country, if not
Indians then Pakistanis and Bangladeshis. How am I supposed to feel remotely
out of place? If truth be told then in Sharjah it is practically impossible to
feel like an alien if one is an Indian. I was forewarned but it is reinforced every day. I am not even
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This country didn’t hit me hard on my face or punch me right
there on my gut like Singapore had. Is it because I came here with a job and
not as a penniless graduate student ? I didn’t have to look for a shelter over
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walks to the park, for movies to the mall, for grocery shopping to any one of
the hundreds of departmental stores that this city is dotted with. I walk and I
walk in the peak of summer in the Middle East and I don’t mind at all. I have
my eureka moments here every now and then, while walking through the streets and I
spot a sign of a book shop only to figure out that it is actually a stationery shop!
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The hottest part of the day I am in office and by evening it
does cool down relatively. What I miss the most, if I have to talk about
superficial material comforts, would be the cold water showers. The feeling of
the cool water against my skin, at the end of a long tiring day at work, will
be a long distant dream now. The water is perennially hot here, even at 10 at
night. All those tall claims about a cooling system for the water tanks were all
eyewash. The only cold water(read as normal water in Indian standards) showers I took was in Dubai at my friends’
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Dubai fails to dazzle me. I am thankful to have friends
there. Not just anybody, but my roomie from Singapore and a very old and dear
friend from my Pune days. But if I had to record my observations on the city, as
a complete outsider who has never visited this part of the world, I’d say it is
big, dizzyingly grand, intentionally imposing <i>(they try too hard to intimidate
with their loud architecture I must say),</i> so very bling and a complete concrete
jungle sprinkled with man-made green patches here and there. What sold Dubai to
me, if at all it did, would be the rows and rows of Gulmohur trees planted
liberally all around the city. The sight of the fiery red blossoms gladdened my
heart and filled me with a strange sense of bonhomie towards the city. I wasn’t
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Utopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-20270882201336728442015-04-27T18:53:00.001+05:302015-04-27T18:53:32.206+05:30Because I am leaving<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Because I am leaving. And I am already feeling home sick before I have left home. Once again. It happened when I least expected it to. Because I keep moving again and again. Because last year all I wanted was to get out and do something that would count. I would be sitting in the bus on my way to office and close my eyes and want to be anywhere but where I was. I would imagine I was back in Singapore, doing the one thing I had wanted to do for the longest time. I got to do that for a year. I came back and hated every bit of working life, loathed it and made my very own personal hell until I realised I cannot possibly survive this way and may be this time I ain't getting out. I made my peace with that and rejections and disappointments became a way of life. But I did find my own little haven. Just when I get all comfortable and cosy this happens. I'd be lying if I said I am not excited but then the apprehension once again. I had more to lose the last time. But hell that year seems magical even now. And this, whatever is in front of me, well I hope it lasts longer and doesn't slip away from between my fingers.A different city, a different life and the older me. Heyllo! Guess whose back!!!! </div>
Utopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-14973849802122774282014-05-27T19:57:00.001+05:302014-05-27T20:01:39.804+05:30I didn't know, I didn't know<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I lied. Getting over Singapore hasn't happened as yet. I am still trying. I live in denial about missing the city, the places, the people and my life there. The thing about home is that it'll never go away ever thankfully so I never miss it as much. Plus being from Calcutta very few things change as such and my school friends are permanently stationed here. I always come back to the same comfortable feeling of home, mum, our conversations, my room, my girls, the same haunts, the coffee shops change once in a while but that is that. It is still us, school friends, Park Street, same watering holes and the conversations too border on familiarity with each other, having grown up together and I wouldn't want this to go away at all. This is my anchor each time I leave a new place and begin elsewhere I know that Calcutta doesn't change as much, for me at least.<br />
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I was in Delhi for a week for my best friend's wedding and it was just fun, fun, fun but I honestly felt nothing coming back to it after 2 years. I have spent almost 5 years there and the longer part of my twenties were spent in Delhi but I feel this strange disassociation from the city. There is no nostalgia attached with the city. I loved that place when I was younger and now I cannot see myself there. I'd much rather stick around in Cal for a bit rather than heading back to Delhi. But of course one gets a job there and one shall be forced to relocate to Delhi yet again. Arghhhhhhh!<br />
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I am not gonna write about SG. I am not gonna write about my last few days there. I am not gonna write about my night out at Timbre, the music, Bettina, Andy, A and I dancing our hearts out. I am not gonna write about the drunken picnic on Marina Barrage, my last day at the Uni as I emptied my locker and returned the keys, entering the library the last time, my last conversation with P in her lovely balcony, standing in the beach with A that last evening, dropping Tina to Uni and she calling back in tears saying she'll miss me, goodbye to A in the MRT and it felt like a movie, a movie I didn't want to end as yet and hell I wanted a happy ending.<br />
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Here I am sleepwalking through my life here. Somedays I am just numb as if the last one year never happened. I make myself believe that I have been here forever. Did I ever have all those conversations with P on her balcony? Did A and I ever walk through Boat Quay singing songs? It is like a dream and I pinch myself to make myself believe all of that actually happened. I lived a lifetime in 9 months, I did. Now to live the rest of my life here and some how it doesn't seem an inviting prospect without some of those lovely people I met.<br />
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Utopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-35137346087200141442014-04-28T08:17:00.001+05:302014-04-28T08:17:34.845+05:30<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
My first and second last exam in 2 hours. I only managed one revision. I somehow just cannot get down to reading like a maniac. I know I shouldn't be over confident because it is construction law but I am hardly complacent about this. I just don't feel like reading anymore. I'll solve the problem when it is in front of me. That is that. I am not excited about this getting over. Of course I can hardly wait for the "I don't need to study everyday diligently feeling" to set in but the rest I am just clueless. What now?<br />
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Utopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-48098209897147858392014-04-11T08:45:00.003+05:302014-04-11T08:48:48.212+05:30Random thoughts <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I wish I had just one day when my mind did not think so much but for the tasks I am supposed to complete. So many thoughts running wild in my head, all the <i>what nots, the whys, the hows</i>? I am tired of over thinking. I am not even that worried. But I think being blank is so peaceful sometimes. I want that blankness of mind, like a blackboard wiped clean.<br />
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Utopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-80591940574177216912014-04-02T07:30:00.001+05:302014-04-02T09:30:15.105+05:30<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I am tired and drained out with research. ASEAN's policies have sucked the life out of me. As usual I have failed to adhere to the word limit of a research paper.<br />
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This morning I got up and I realised any more reading on ASEAN and I'll explode. Besides the amount of time I spend on Facebook is preposterous. Last night I deactivated my account only to activate it again.<br />
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I keep reading this fabulous articles, written by brilliant people and I also read some not so great articles by not so brilliant people and then I write a pile of rubbish and sometimes maybe I write something that actually makes sense and the one thing that keeps running in my mind while I am buried knee deep in books, getting all these concepts clear in my head, stuff I never thought would come to me easily and it still doesn't but I love it, and the truth is that one does not feel like going back to highways, underground railways and bridges. Airports I can tolerate. But loving something and tolerating something is soooooo different.<br />
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Silly woman. Should have taken the corporate and financial services modules and never gotten a taste of this. The doctrine of 'grapes are sour' shall never apply here. Now to live with this. </div>
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I liked this today. :) Inspired me. I am hardly rising though. Just moving along with the waves. Not descending definitely.<br />
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It is second semester, my last semester here. 3 months and I am done with exams. 29th April, 2014 is my last exam. I have little idea what is in store for me. I began classes two weeks back and I am soooo in love with the subjects. They are vague, random, arbitrary but hell I love them.<br />
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It actually takes time to like a new city, it takes time to find your own space, your niche and to surround yourself with your kind of people. I had a presentation today, was up all night reading up and when I walked through Botanic Gardens this morning it didn't feel alien at all. Even the nervousness and jitteriness before presentations has significantly reduced. It just feels soooooooo different.<br />
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The weekend passed away in a blur of parties, dinners, conversations, dancing, birthdays and pictures. I'll miss all of this.<br />
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I could do with a bit of luck though for the future. Even if I am lost, hope it is in the right direction. It sure feels like that. </div>
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And exactly 4 months from the day I landed in Singapore which was 29th July, 4:30 in the evening on 29th November my first semester exams got done. It was Aviation Law & Policy and I could scarcely believe that its over. We kept looking at each other in disbelieve. I was sitting sandwiched between Shawn and Ty for the exam and the last 15 minutes kept muttering the language from the case laws under my breath making Ty laugh uncontrollably. The IP exam was in the same room and I could see my afro-austrian hottie from the corner of my eye. Bliss it was once I had finished writing and could check him out guilt free. Hahah! Nadine and I hi fived saying "we made it". Just before the exam began outside the lecture hall we were the only two people sitting aimlessly on the floor minus any books or notes. I had honestly had enough. I had spent the last half an hour listening to this piece of music from Amelie and I was somewhere far away in my head.<br />
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We have come such a long way from that first class from Prof had shown us this video on the twenty four hour air traffic and I had wondered okay what have I landed myself in. This is fascinating but seems more on the lines of inexplicable in some ways. I grew to love the classes and made some really good friends there. Nadine and I had been meaning to go for a drink the entire semester and we finally landed up at Wine Company right after the exam finishing of a bottle of wine by 6 in the evening.<br />
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Had dinner later with the girls at Holland Village and Ty and I couldn't stop discussing aviation until Anh who is the youngest but acts like quite the mother hen had to put a stop to it saying "I am feeling out of place." We landed up at Wina's with cookies and wine as an antidote for her migraine and laughed away the rest of the evening, discussing Harry Potter, Percy Jackson, Murakami, the chinese girls of our batch, John Mayer and how we shall diligently study from the first day the next semester so as to enable us to survive this ordeal better. I came home so happy and carefree. I kept looking back at the last 4 months and wondering what had changed, something changed. Where was the complaining, grumpy me?<br />
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Last morning I had a mini-crisis in Little India but I managed to override it and the cab to the bus stop also almost never came but T thankfully got a cab at the nick of time. I was petrified I'd miss my bus to KL. The journey to KL was 5 and a half hours of non-stop music on my player. I could hardly wait to get off the bus after the first 4 hours. Here I am in KL, chilling with my friend and it feels surreal. I have sooooo much time. Reallyyy now!!!!!</div>
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I have a paper in half an hour. Probably the easiest one of all. I gave a really really bad Public International Law paper last afternoon that left me with a sour taste in my mouth and a nasty headache. The only saving grace was in the form of P, this Afro-Austrian cutie from NYU@NUS who was my eye candy post exam in the reading room as I tried to cheer myself up and get down to studying Projects. I couldn't study. Came home and slept for 8 hours straight until T woke me up at 6:30 AM horrified that I was still asleep. I finally got to revise my stuff this morning but no mood to study anymore.<br />
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Moral of the story: I never know when I give a good paper and when I don't. The amount I study is not directly proportional to how well I write a paper. Arghhhhhhh! </div>
Utopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-39121782683325418592013-11-20T13:21:00.002+05:302013-11-20T13:24:35.875+05:30On an almost happy me today<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Happiness is a steaming bowl of <i>rasam</i> made by your landlady on a rare lazy Wednesday afternoon when you bond with her due to lack of company or maybe because you have gotten used to these bonding sessions over toasting bread and making coffee every morning and sometimes her generous offers of delicious food. She is home away from home for me. I never ever thought I would ever call this place I stay in home. How I hated it with a passion when I first shifted in! Damn it things change.<br />
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Happiness is having homemade <i>gol gappe</i> and drinking <i>screw drivers</i> simultaneously while you catch up with T on a Tuesday night. Happiness is <i>rajma chawal, palak paneer</i> and <i>chapatis</i> laced with <i>ghee </i>on the same night as you gossip about all the common people you once knew and rarely hear about but for Facebook.<br />
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Happiness is coming face to face with your best buddy at the bus stop after 2 days of cold war and avoiding each other because you gave him a piece of your mind. Happiness is making up with UT at the bus stop opposite Uni with no explanations being given or any justifications needed.<br />
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Happiness is all the yummie bong food P makes for me and I gorge on almost weekly, especially the fish curries. Happiness is looking forward to meeting her this evening.<br />
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Happiness is finishing the first reading of Aviation Law & Policy in 4 days without any guarantee of the grades you are gonna get. What the hell at least you finished the damn first reading!<br />
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Happiness is the end of term Bar-B-Q at A and B's place on Saturday which actually just 3 days before the dreaded PIL exam.<br />
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Happiness is knowing that exams get over in 10 days. God help those grades, you only wanna pass.<br />
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Utopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-21850399064246130892013-11-16T15:23:00.002+05:302013-11-16T15:23:35.187+05:30Guess what inspired me today!!!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I finished my first and probably the last revision of PIL last evening after much deliberation on whether I should give it another day. But Aviation Law & Policy beckoned. Trying to study Aviation all afternoon but my mind has been somewhere else. Studied a bit of Private International Air Law halfheartedly, taken too many breaks. Then I found this <a href="http://www.indianmemoryproject.com/tag/sir-mohinder-dhillon/#sthash.YyfYngUg.dpbs">http://www.indianmemoryproject.com/tag/sir-mohinder-dhillon/#sthash.YyfYngUg.dpbs</a> and I hope it is the much needed mood uplifter. I need to read something inspiring everyday to keep myself going. 2 weeks more and I am done with first semester. Sigh! </div>
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Today is one of those days. I studied a bit of PIL, finished reading one case. Read one New York Times Article that made me mull over the perils of social networking and excess of texting and messaging. I took a lunch break with Bettina and Sans when we made fun of all the localites and how serious they are about books and notes and studies in general. I came back to my seat, finished reading the bit on the Rhodesian UDI and then read this. <a href="http://www.rebellesociety.com/2013/11/08/a-pause-for-my-mom/">http://www.rebellesociety.com/2013/11/08/a-pause-for-my-mom/</a><div>
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It reminded me of people gone, of my grandmums and my Dad. It reminded me of the fact that I want to stay a flight away from family and loved ones, preferably a national flight and how I want to spend more time with Mum and Bonu and Mashi and Mumum and Mesho and Shivi and Mona and Tinni and Nisha and Sagarika. I want to meet Par, Rad and Akku more often. I hope to meet P every now and then even if I leave Singapore next year. That pretty much sums up my world. Hahaha! Sounds so simple, doesn't it? </div>
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Yes yes ambition lurks somewhere. I don't know if its beneath all of that or all of that is shrouded in this garb of ambition. </div>
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It seriously doesn't help when the guy who got an A+ is roaming around before your very eyes, under your nose, chilling out, listening to music and studying while you got a C in the same essay and you are at your wit's end trying to figure how to manage all the reading material for the same module's final exam. I am so jealous of S___. He is brilliant. He quotes all international law scholars like he was born spouting the "The Treaty of Westphalia" and Grotius,Hobbes,Kant, Vettel and Rousseau were people with whom he rubbed shoulders with all his life. I am struggling with this paper and he does everything so effortlessly. Hmmmphhhhh! <div>
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Utopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-3353842277328441062013-11-04T09:32:00.002+05:302013-11-04T13:03:28.349+05:30I am late but Happy Diwali :)<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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As my roomie put it in words so eloquently this morning when she walked in all red eyed, looking haggard and tired after uploading her paper <i>"Forget about Diwali mera toh Diwala nikal gaya."</i> Hahaha! Those were the longest twenty four hours of my life. I spent the whole of Diwali writing a 24 hour take home exam for International Commercial Arbitration and all the misconceptions I had about how easy a 24 hour exam shall be, were dispersed when the question paper was uploaded at 9 in the morning. I was up till 4 in the morning today doing it, reading and re-reading and trying to figure if my line of arguments for the wretched practical problem was actually making any sense. We spent hours and hours hunched over our laptops drafting our grounds of challenge. I know everyone does this in law school. I am sure they do. But doing this after 7 years of work is a tad bit difficult.Plus law school for me back then was so different. There was no plagiarism policy or turnitin breathing down my neck. Come to think of it education back then was so pro-plagiarism that I had to change my complete line of thinking. Imagine footnoting everything I write or how do you footnote a memory or an experience as I increasingly find this happening in my Project Infrastructure class. On top of the moot problem there was an essay question and for more than an hour we kept thinking noooo this question can't be that direct, I am sure there is more to it until we gave up thinking let's just write what we think it is. It really isn't helping us by thinking what more can this question want us to venture into besides what is staring at our faces.<br />
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Utopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-28104539968213659002013-10-28T18:00:00.001+05:302013-10-28T18:00:25.119+05:30Can I have it all?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Someday am gonna miss all these books and all this studying. Someday again an upcoming exam won't be the only tribulation in my life. That day I'll miss all of this madness and frenzy to complete my syllabus. Cheers to all of this today. I know I won't have this tomorrow. It'll be over before I know and it'll be back to the drudgery of daily life. Hopefully I shall find something new to look forward to even then. However much I crib and whine every day there are moments like this when I am reminded I am where I wanted to be for now at least.<br />
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Hope I find a workplace that shall have rows and rows of Construction Law Journals stacked neatly in shelves like in the CJ Koh Library here, waiting to be discovered by me. :) I am being too idealistic. Even if I do, there shall be some catch to it, like a neurotic boss and psycho nasty colleagues or a bad pay scale. Sigh! We cannot ever ever have it all. </div>
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I got high on apple cider last night. I am getting older. This is how you realise you are 30. You wake up in the morning with a hangover because you drank 4 bottles of cider. Like seriously! My drunk stories ain't that drunk anymore. They are more of happy and buzzed stories when I have a great time over barbq and conversations on modules and how all of us are dying together. I am not the only one having a tough time. So many of us hold the same views and opinion on the way of living here, how you are not allowed to think for yourself. I thought being an Indian I was probably being too critical but I was speaking to an Indonesian, a Thai girl and a Vietnamese classmate and they felt the same. I don't share a single module with them but they have had the same experiences and they get the same vibes I do from the Singaporeans. I wasn't imagining all of that.<br />
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The only reason I get offered notes in my PIL class is because I am good friends with Andy and Bettina who are Swiss. If not for the Swiss none of the Singaporeans would come out and offer me their carefully comprised notes. I get the fact that my brown skin will be held against me. I was under the impression it is more to do with my race so if I was an oriental they would be more friendly. I was wrong because my mates belonging to neighbouring countries and happening to be South East Asian are treated with the same disdain. So last evening we were exchanging notes and it was amazing how each one of us had similar stories to tell without ever having discussed it with each other. But to be honest I am not so sensitive about this racial profiling. Given that it is Singapore I am more than happy going back and working in India.<br />
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This isn't some fascinating city I see myself in. If this was London or New York I wouldn't have given a rat's arse to racialism at this level and stayed on and tried to make it there. There has to be more to a city than just clean roads, greenery, well managed traffic, malls and more malls. I love the safety bit. I love the fact that I can wear whatever I want and walk out anytime of the day without men checking me out from head to toe, without men mentally undressing me, without being objectified, without being felt up, without being scared that I am gonna get raped. I love all of this and this should be the case in any civilised city but sadly it isn't so in my country. But this isn't enough for me at least to stay on. I so miss my people. People make a city or it has to be as fabulous as a New York, Paris or a London and this place is far from that. I haven't been to those cities so I shouldn't be talking like I am authority on having lived there but I am so sure they are more interesting cities to live, work and stay while you are still young. :) Come now thirty isn't too old and I am not gonna stop dreaming, trying to get where I want to. Not as yet. </div>
Utopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-30521115266252781242013-10-25T13:50:00.003+05:302013-10-25T13:50:36.898+05:30<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I confess I am feeling rather happy today. I just uploaded my last written assignment for this semester. A 3000 word essay on the<i> "written requirement"</i> under the New York Convention. I went bonkers with the plagiarism check and just before I submitted it I realised I had gone dreadfully wrong with my footnoting. It took the better part of the hour between 2 to 3 rectifying that and finally I could heave a sigh of relief.<br />
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I have also chosen my modules for the next semester and needless to say it isn't getting any easier. Sigh! But of course 4 written exams to go before I can think of the new modules. The last three in succession and that shall be a trial by fire. I haven't given any exams in 7 years.:( Next semester Business & Finance is gonna kill me beautifully, skillfully and ever so slowly. I am so hoping I get the chance to be killed by it. Hmmmmm..... Bring it on.<br />
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But dear Lord could I please pass these 5 modules first without flunking in any and without having to defend myself against any plagiarism charges. Please pleaseeeeeee! </div>
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And when I least expect it something reminds me of Dad. Like this childhood friend of mine on Facebook. We haven't met in years and years but we belong to the common <i>fauji </i>background. Her Dad was in the army and to top that her brother joined the same battalion my Dad is from and her fiance is an infantry officer too. Anytime she puts up a status on us army kids or brats I feel so nostalgic for the childhood I had and mostly the Father who isn't there anymore. Baba not a day goes by when I don't think of you in some way or the other.You are always there somewhere around in my thoughts. It isn't that mind numbing empty restless ache anymore but that void will forever be there. You are missed. I hope I can in my own small way make you proud of me. Right now though everything seems like a maze and I seem to be stumbling, getting up, falling down and trying to walk in the direction of the light wondering where is this light coming from. No answers as yet. </div>
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One month, six days to go and I am done with Semester 1. I can't hardly wait. I am gonna run away from Singapore that day to KL. 3 days there and off to India for a month. Yeayyyy!<br />
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But of course I need to get done with 4 exams before that. </div>
Utopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-18728043903966034872013-10-14T14:54:00.001+05:302013-10-14T14:54:14.202+05:30And I am plain tired of all this.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I am tired of writing, writing, reading and writing some more and again writing. I keep looking out of the window and the view is so pretty and green and all I want to do is walk around, stare at the blue skies, appreciate the green leafiness of the trees juxtaposed against the blueness of the skies. I wanna worry about my appearance, my eyebrows that have grown into a forest, my nails that are screaming for a manicure and the feet that'll die for a pedicure. I want to be able to surf the net, read random articles, blogs, food blogs, strange blogs, the New Yorker, the Rumpus, Rebelle Society. I want to read the remaining bit of Julie and Julia in one sitting on my Kindle. I wanna go for a run and pant and pant and feel my muscles being stretched and come back home and take a warm water shower with the most aromatic of bath gels and just stand under the shower and feel the warm water over my naked body. I wanna shop for clothes without worrying about the burden it'll cast on my pocket. I wanna wear lipgloss and colourful eyeliners and colour co-ordinate my clothes and make up and shoes. I wanna buy shoes, slip ons, chappals, moccasins. I wanna go out for drinks with my favourite people at our favourite haunts, order as many plates of crispy lamb and chilly pork and have as many glasses of Bloody Marys, Margheritas and Screw Drivers.<br />
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I wanna do all the above without worrying about papers, assignments and exams and this excruciating fear of failure. I am missing out on life at some levels I feel. I am gaining knowledge and yada yada yada but it doesn't help that while all I did was to sit cooped up in this darned stupid CJ Koh library during the festive season, everyone back home only spoke about the delicious food they feasted on, the range of colourful outfits they wore, the amazing times with loved ones, the gaiety and fun and frolic in the air and I was in this clinical and sterile country where every thing is so mechanical. People don't have conversations while travelling in buses. They are busy playing with their phones and tablets. They hardly talk. Whispering out aloud in the library is also greeted with raised eyebrow and a frown by a local Singaporean. I have one really good friend but she seems to be an anomaly amongst the rest. She is like us Indians, loud, giggly, loves to chatter. The Europeans are so much more friendly and forthcoming. The chinese are reserved and suspicious by nature of foreigners especially Indians. But if you are white you'll be treated like God in this country. I see it everywhere. I don't plan to live here forever so it doesn't bother me.<br />
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I think this is how your perspective changes once you head out. Not that one is treated as a first class citizen in India. I am so so aware of how things work out in India and the shortcomings of the system. I totally get why people once gone often do not wanna come back once they get a taste of life elsewhere. Singapore is fair to its citizens and I accept that. If you are a Singaporean citizen here then there would hardly be any discrimination based on your race, religion or economic status. In India we deal with discrimination everywhere but then we get used to it. Its inbuilt and when we want to get something done we know we'll have to approach the right people. For that you need money of course. In India a lot of it is about how much money do you have and do you know the right people and these two questions are repeated again and again in situation after situation? To think I still wanna go back to that is questionable. I guess its the fact that I don't like living without a support system and my people and at the end that is all that matters. </div>
Utopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-63955150847209841332013-10-11T10:20:00.003+05:302013-10-11T10:21:47.108+05:30Note to myself<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
So my moot got over. And of course I was grilled the most. Back in another lifetime too I would be scared but this time I was hell bent on doing decently and couldn't afford to make a fool of myself. Plus my case itself was weak. I don't know if I did well. I tried to hold my ground but I could have done better. My partner was really good with her pleadings and so supportive. Our memorial was better. Thank God for that. I spent precious hours drafting it. So that was one saving grace.<br />
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I am in familiar territory now trying to draft an opinion for the Project Infrastructure assignment but yet again I have to do well in this one. This is my field. I cannot give a substandard opinion. Not in this one. No excuses and no room for slip shoddy work. </div>
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This is endless. :( </div>
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I also discovered where my heart is. </div>
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Note to myself: I wanna travel the world but wanna be based at home. </div>
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