tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post8669221161009692596..comments2023-10-19T20:13:37.713+05:30Comments on Utopia: Life or something like it.......Utopiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10704721941622143439noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-17858859131670604052008-12-04T17:08:00.000+05:302008-12-04T17:08:00.000+05:30'are taken by the time we are ready'--thats so ver...'are taken by the time we are ready'--thats so very true!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-18146398829785538122007-12-31T11:41:00.000+05:302007-12-31T11:41:00.000+05:30Marriage is high on every Indian parents' priority...Marriage is high on every Indian parents' priority list. And maybe rightly so. With this kinda attitude prevailing, all the "nice" ones (maybe not perfect, but more eligible) are taken by the time we are ready. I am way older than you, still unmarried, and find no one my age still single and looking. Maybe I will end up loving the wrong people.Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-22104776293137747822007-12-24T18:58:00.000+05:302007-12-24T18:58:00.000+05:30believe me girl...thats what parents are all about...believe me girl...thats what parents are all about..but they do understand...:)<BR/>we are just 24 and then again, its got nothing to do with age...its all about the 'right person' and the 'right moment' :)and those are matters of the heart so u got to let it decide...<BR/>try talking it out to ur mom...<BR/>my mom had gone on a 'u ought to think about the future (read marriage)' convincing spree a couple of months back, highly influenced by the oh so very worried about my life and future <BR/>aunties and uncles...<BR/>but then when it got a bit too much, i just went up to her and said 'mom dont u think its better to take my own time than having to live the rest of my life regretting tht i married the wrong guy just because i thought time was running out'...<BR/>she smiled and dint argue...<BR/>after that conversation, we havent spoken on that topic again (atleast till now..touchwood! .heehee)<BR/>ohh and by the way i dont really agree tht ppl who want to live their life single and happy are living in denial...whatever makes u think tht---im really surprised...Prihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01023126998314268275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-58001772634284121462007-12-24T11:23:00.000+05:302007-12-24T11:23:00.000+05:30Hey man .. update .. write something gal ..Hey man .. update .. write something gal ..radioheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13395315639501502469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-87867735975886841622007-12-21T22:45:00.000+05:302007-12-21T22:45:00.000+05:30Enjoy your life hon, you can almost legally drink ...Enjoy your life hon, you can almost legally drink now! :DRenovatiohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08287413128345582022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-74033181072533775492007-12-21T11:44:00.000+05:302007-12-21T11:44:00.000+05:30How dare you end your post on such a negative note...How dare you end your post on such a negative note??? I insist you change it right away. ofcourse there is such a thing as a soulmate and serendipity too, dont stop believing...not yet at any rate. marriage will happen..only when you want it. life is good, so is love, eve if its one way street. it just makes you warm on the inside.Shehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07681746917831453444noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-19004393424771874922007-12-21T10:30:00.000+05:302007-12-21T10:30:00.000+05:30Parents... they worry... they cant help themselves...Parents... they worry... they cant help themselves :)WritingsForLifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15222395399977749183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-7103957152217912892007-12-19T03:45:00.000+05:302007-12-19T03:45:00.000+05:30It lies in your hand,the ultimate decision.In the ...It lies in your hand,the ultimate decision.In the end,it's your life and you have every right to choose who you want to spend most of it with.Good luck!Sameera Ansarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05249126041067834608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-52282332681053323072007-12-18T13:33:00.000+05:302007-12-18T13:33:00.000+05:30Exactly !! Whn I say to people 'I am scared of mar...Exactly !! Whn I say to people 'I am scared of marriages rite now', they alwyz tend to get me wrng like I am scared of commitments n all .. which is pathetic .. I mean thts d point .. I am not denyin it .. its just that rite now its scary .. n weird .. <BR/><BR/>I guess wht ur sayin in important .. like u knw .. initially its all dreamy n u believe that all these things like finding someone perfect n all do exist in reality .. but thn u realise tht its all phony .. n nothin in this wrld is exact .. <BR/><BR/>but I guess .. I would like to believe in Serendipity .. who knws .. whts coming your way .. just that you can hope for it to be beautiful !! <BR/><BR/>cheersradioheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13395315639501502469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-29370980285320042882007-12-17T23:00:00.000+05:302007-12-17T23:00:00.000+05:30Hey this made me write something which has been hi...Hey this made me write something which has been hiding deep down my minds for quite sometime now..<BR/><BR/>I guess all 20 somethings have this pressure from parents about marriage, and yes we all have our own worries, its strange that what we want from a marriage varies from person so person, and the variance is so vast.<BR/><BR/>I really liked the maturity depicted in what you look for in a guy.. <BR/><BR/>excellent thought provoking post.Ramblerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04048279856792308653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-42512666989215458032007-12-17T20:00:00.000+05:302007-12-17T20:00:00.000+05:30This post pretty much summarizes the issues of a 2...This post pretty much summarizes the issues of a 20 something person. I guess there's a time and place for everything, until then just go with the flow.Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12968098471968377487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-73536659847001664532007-12-17T17:30:00.000+05:302007-12-17T17:30:00.000+05:30hmm...u can't help it girl..that IS how typical in...hmm...u can't help it girl..that IS how typical indian parents are when it comes to being a daughter...no matter how much India talks abt modernization and stuff, the fact still remains that parents today still feel that it is their karmic duty to marry off their daughter as soon as she reaches the marriageable age...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-88788596574166585102007-12-17T16:09:00.000+05:302007-12-17T16:09:00.000+05:30hmmm... teh age old problem rears its ugly head ag...hmmm... teh age old problem rears its ugly head again!! it seriously does get bugging for a girl wen her parents wanna pac her off early on.. i have a frnd who's going through the same cenario.. and she goes through it smartly fidns one flaw or teh otehr to reject teh guy!! brat!!<BR/><BR/>anywyz, another i would like to point out. you said: "I don’t believe in fairytales anymore, I don’t believe in soul mates too. I don’t believe in serendipity."<BR/>You should believe!! trust me they do happen.. it's always there... nad ic an tell you this because i've seen them happening.. i been down the hill too.. life is too short for one to give up such beautiful ideas... u simply cannot!! i mean, can u really have a bitter or sour cake??? u can't, r8?? u need dat dashfo sugar... maybe that extra cream, or nut or some other fruit... but you'd need it!! dats how dreams, fairytales, serendipity, love, trust they all come into the picture!! without them you're as good as a dead man walking...<BR/><BR/>think abt it!!Samhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06394200137631383145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19324689.post-77622354149705678082007-12-17T15:32:00.000+05:302007-12-17T15:32:00.000+05:30Well your butt's getting big and you're 24....hmmm...Well your butt's getting big and you're 24....hmmmm if you ask me you're hot property right now :) . So its obvious why you're mother wants you to get married now. Its all downhill after 25 :) Maybe you should engineer some of your acquaintances to post themselves on these matrimonial sites with fantastic credentials and a zillion degrees and set them up to meet your Mum and they can turn out to be everything the opposite of what they claimed. A good opening line could be "I like to molest dogs..' you get what I'm saying :)BananaFishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01713687780551362772noreply@blogger.com